Struggles: For Better or Worse?
- be_u_yourlifedependsonit
- Mar 29
- 2 min read
Updated: Apr 2
We all go through struggles in life, and it us up to us whether those struggles are for better or for worse.
Whether your struggles are for better worse depends on how you frame your thoughts and move through these challenges. It can determine whether you will emerge from them a better person or a bitter person.
When you are resistant to the ebbs and flows of life, the difficult feelings are intensified, because you are desperately clinging to a reality that is not current, rather than accepting what is.
By accepting your situation, you are opening yourself up to understand and learn what you are supposed to learn in this season of life. You are positioning yourself as a master of your destiny and decreasing the likelihood that this circumstance will repeat itself.
Now let me be clear, accepting your situation does not mean that you don’t have any strong feelings about it. It means that you refuse to lose faith and give in to a victim mindset as soon as things become uncomfortable.
You know that you were not placed here for the purpose of suffering, but to learn valuable lessons for yourself and for others. You know that any discomfort you are going through is not inherently bad or permanent. Sometimes in order to learn, you are required to go through some level of suffering, either because it serves as a memorable lesson or to help guide others from a personal perspective in the future.
To endure difficulty with trust in better outcomes is to exercise a high level of discipline and resilience. During this process, you are acquiring the skills necessary in order to handle the positive things that will eventually enrich your life later down the line.
Remember, you are human and you are never given more than you can handle. Sit with your emotions. Acknowledge them and find the lesson in all of this. If that means you have to pause and re-evaluate your choices, plans or environment, do that. Just don’t let your suffering be in vain.
The struggle is not meant to break you, but it is to build you into a valuable human being.
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